Im going to go with superficial. Not that I am shallow but I dont have much time to invest in a person. I can pretend to be deeply engaged in a conversation but at the same time im taking mental notes. He have one time in the initial conversation to impress me. I dont care what else he have going on, if he cant hold a decent conversation, he lost my interest. He may be a very interesting individual and have a lot going on but I go with the obvious, I go with my instincts every time.

This might be why you call yourself LoveLess!!  I have spoken to a lot of different women in a lot of different countries and for some reason American women or American influenced women are rather superficial!  I am not being mean but Ithink that Being superficial means being interested in something that really doesnt matter and is really empty and unfulfilling!  Just my opinion!!!!

@G this blog isnt about me, I just answered the question. Im only superficial in the sense that I check out the inner surface first. I pretty much have my stop watch going. Either the conversation is going to impress me or its not. Im not superficial when it comes to what type of car he drive, how one is dressed and so forth. Intelligence is the biggest turn-on to me. And either you have it or you dont. P.S I call myself loveless because Im not ready to love anyone and I put the brakes on b4 anyone can fall in love with me.

Well I understand thet!  But I dont think you can tell yourself that your not ready for love because I feel that ti just happens!!!