Now that I have your attention!  I went over a girls' house that I am trying to get at the other night and had a strange thing happen to me!  This was only the second time that I had been over her house and the first time I went over there she decided to pull out both of her breasts and start nursing her almost 2 year old son!  She then told me " I hope this doesnt make you uncomfortable?  I'm just kind of a nudist!"  Now that you have the back story, here we go!  This girl I must add is a total dime, I mean 15 out of 10 on the fine scale!!!  So I am at her house and we are talking in her kitchen and all of a sudden she says " hold on, no keep talking! I just have to go boo boo!"  Then she proceeds to go in te bathroom and take a dump with the door wide open and continuing the coverstation with me!  I mean I was looking right at her while this was going on and she wasn't trying to hide it or nothing!!!!  Now I am comfotable with a lot of things but I'm not totally sure about this!  The funnier thing is that although this was kind of a gross thing to do, she is so fine that I wasn't totally grossed out by it! (Does that mean there is something wrong with me?)  Any way what are your thought FH family on this situation because I don't even know how to process this one!

I'm not sure about nursing the two year old because I'm not sure whether two year old still drink from a baby bottle.  If it is typical of a two year old to drink from a bottle, I would be too alarm. 

I would have been thinking about grabbin me a tiddy  to nurse on myself...lol.

Now, with taking a dump with the door wide open with company in the house... I would have cracked a few jokes, such as "the fine shit do stinks" or something like that.

My girl will close the door when taking a crap, but I will push it open and continue talking... I will squeeze my nose when talking though...lol.

I'm a little different, I will just squeeze a few jokes in and keep on stepping. 

"your eyes get red when you push"...lol.

"damn, that was a big plop, you dropped a bowling ball?"

"don't forget the courtesy flush, I know that bowl is full with all those turds hitting the water"...lol.

If she want to leave the door open and take a dump, she has to be able to put up with my jokes... its a two way street...lol.

That is too funny!!!  I think I was just in a state of shock though so I couldnt really respond!  Im really still getting to know this girl and did I mention that she is fine as hell!!!!

@Smoove:  It appears that your girl has some major issues, (breast feeding a 2-year old?  Seriously?!?), but that her physical appearance is gets her a pass on shyt (pun intended) that an average sister probably wouldn't get.  I think sistergirl knows that her physical attributes will get her a pass on just about any shyt she dishes out.  I'm sure you're not the first to do it.

The question that I have for you is:  Does physical appearance carry more weight [for you] than some other things like manners, a sound judgment, and plain ole' common sense?  Qualities that would be a "must have" from a chick that was a 7 or 8.

@ Dashon- Absolutly not!!!  I think it was that I was really in a stat of shock when it happened and was numb so I thought that the reason that I didnt really fell any way about it was because I was enthralled by how she looks!  ( may be shallow but it is true)  I think that the reason I even posted this wasbecause I know tht looks arent everything and wanted to show how beautiful people can do some of the ugliest things and think that it is okay because people have not checed them on it!!!  The more I think about it the more I realize that it was really crazy but at the same time really funny!!!!!  The truth is that I really didnt know how to feel at the time!

Well said Dashon

@Smoove

I could give a damn if shorty was a 5, 10, 15 or whatever, she wouldn't get a pass on shittin in front of me. What attracts me about a lady, is a lady being a lady. I would even be turned off if I walked in behind her and she didn't even spray. It's not lady like and I get turned off easily. What's next, you'll pick up her boo boo stained under wear after a session and then say "at least the sex was good". Nah man!

"I was really in a stat of shock when it happened and was numb so I thought that the reason that I didnt really fell any way about it was because I was enthralled by how she looks! "

"...wanted to show how beautiful people can do some of the ugliest things and think that it is okay because people have not checed them on it!!! "

@Smoove:  Sounds like we're saying the same thing. Hopefully, your "big" head will reign supreme when making decisions about this chick. 

@Mass:  Thanks! 

G-Smoove, that may be the tip of more BS that could follow, or it could be the worse that you may have to deal with.  I would keep my eyes and senses tuned to which way it goes, but that wouldn't be a deal breaker to me at that moment.

I'm like Mass, in that there are indicators to look for that may clue you in to what you want or don't want in a potential, and with or girl, that may be the worse case and everything else may fall in place with want you like in a woman. 

As indicators to me when determining a sista's potential, I'm more concern about what I don't know about her that could bust my ass wide open deep into a relationship, as oppose to a worse case situation of a sista taking a crap with the door open... hell, if we get into a relationship, we are likely to get to that point some time during the relationship.

And I agree with Mass, that she did lose some "Lady" points with that one, but when it comes to "Lady" points, I look at it like it really is, in that a whole lot of sistas would loose their "lady" points if the man "only knew" some of the things about her behavior or some mess she has done behind her man's back.

Totally in agreement with Wood. She may be a 15 but taking a crap puts her at a 5 and breastfeeding a 2 y.o puts her at a zero. She's testing you on the small B.S You better believe she havent even got started on the bigger bull shit level. If you stay just be warned

See, I would have taken notice on her breast feeding in front of me, not of the child's age.  I forget when kids stop drinking milk.  As a man, I've seen what I felt were bigger kids drinking from a bottle, and I would assume that if a kid drinks out of bottle, than he can still nurse unless he starts biting.

Is it the kid's age that causes alarm? or the fact that she is doing it in front of him?

I would have missed this one as being an indicator, especially when I see women doing it more and more out in public.

A TWO YEAR OLD SHOULD NOT STILL BE BREAST FED PERIOD! SOMETHING IS EITHER WRONG WITH THE CHILD OR THE MOTHER OR BOTH!

Does a 2 year old still drink milk from a bottle?  Does breast feeding terminate during the same time as bottle feeding regardless of age?

Sometimes a2 y.o drink milk from a bottle but should be drinking from a sippy cup. Also you dont want someone with a whole mouth of teeth sucking on your breast, Thats the same as someone w/o experience grinding her teeth on your .... oh my bad but you get the point, Its time to tell them to get off.

The question you need to ask yourself is...why are her breasts still leaking milk? Is she pregnant again? Don't put yourself in a trap with this one. If she wants to be one of the boys, that's cool....but if she tries to cross the line with you get out of there!

I dont think I could have got past the boo boo open door story. Just a little too much for me. I would have felt she had no class and left it at that.